Dear Mike & Liza,
This summer my wife and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. She wants to renew our vows and have a big party. She is looking at Pinterest and talking about what food should be catered and asking if we should get a band or a DJ.
I don’t think we should do it. It seems so dumb. People already know we’re married. We have kids that need to go to college and a mortgage to pay and about a million other things we could spend the money on.
I asked her if I could just take her on a romantic second honeymoon instead. She says she wants to have the wedding reception of her dreams.
It just sounds horrible and expensive to me.
Scott, Idaho Falls