Have you seen the Ragu com­mer­cial?  I ask because, that hap­pened to my hus­band and me, last week.  Our chil­dren are 10, 8 and 6.  Our 10 year old sur­prised us dur­ing a roman­tic inter­lude.  My hus­band thinks we should sit down with him and talk about it.  He says our son might have ques­tions and this is a great time to have “the talk.”

I am mor­ti­fied and I know my son is too.  The LAST thing I want to do is have this con­ver­sa­tion.  Can’t we just pre­tend it never happened?

Heather, Idaho Falls

PS:  Yes, I bought a lock for our door.