Dear Mike & Liza,

We recently became empty nesters. I’m enjoy­ing it, my wife not so much. Our son is 27 and has sole cus­tody of his 5 year old daugh­ter. He’s doing okay, but my wife insists he needs our help, and wants our grand­daugh­ter to move in with us. I just want to be a Grand­par­ent, not a par­ent again.

Please help,

Bill, Pocatello