Dear Mike & Liza,
I’ve been married to my husband for 12 years. I wouldn’t say things are rocky, but our marriage could certainly be better. It’s not bad…it’s just boring. We can go all day without talking to one another. We work and parent and watch a little TV — and we’re usually in different rooms. Suddenly when we go to bed, he makes his move. And his move is kind of boring too. The last thing I want to do after a day of babies, bosses and boring is, well, you know.
He says if I just try harder I’ll get in the mood.
I say we save it for weekends and special occasions.
Becky, Idaho Falls