Dear Mike & Liza
I told my husband I want to join a gym when the kids go back to school. It would be approximately $200 a month.
He told me there are a ton of free apps and internet plans I can use to get in shape. I told him I wanted some guidance. He told me he would buy me P90X. I told him I want to get out of the house and do something for me. He told me I could go for walks in the park or run around the neighborhood.
Both our arguments sound equally reasonable.
You make the call.