Dear Mike & Liza,
My wife is a wonderful, beautiful, accomplished woman. In her life she has experienced some “set backs” but she continues to perservere and move forward with grace and strength.
So it really bothers me that her status update on Facebook is frequently about how sad she is, or what struggle she’s facing. If I weren’t married to her, I would read those updates and think that she was constantly whining, complaining and miserable.
I think it’s a bad look for her. And, to be perfectly honest, it reflects poorly on me. My colleagues at work will ask me “is your wife ok?”
Is she oversharing or am I being insensitive to her needs?
Bill, Idaho Falls