Dear Mike & Liza,
My wife and I have been married for 24 years. I don’t think I’ve ever given any input on furniture, curtains, towels or bedding in our married life – but my wife has always made choices that I like or can live with. I came home last week and found out she bought a new bedspread for our room. No! I am not sleeping in this bed. She says it’s pretty. I say it’s ridiculous. You make the call.