Dear Mike & Liza,
When we got married 7 years ago, I weighed 105 pounds. My husband thinks it’s funny to use “105” as some sort of coded reminder to me that I’ve gained weight. PIN = 0105 Garage door code = 0105 He makes a big deal out of January 5th and he texts me “Hey, it’s 1:05 – I was just thinking about you.”
I don’t think it’s funny and I’ve told him so. He says he’s just joking and he wants me to be focused on my goal to weigh 105 again. (A goal that HE set, by the way.)
Can you make him stop?
Jessica, Idaho Falls