Dear Mike & Liza,
My husband has made a lovely, thoughtful, personal and quite frankly expensive gift for his parents this Christmas. When I told him I plan to spend the same amount of money on my parents he said he didn’t see why that was necessary. He says the parents will never compare gifts and know who we spent more money on. I say it’s the principle of it. If he gets to spend that much I should be able to spend the same.
Can you make the call?