Am I a ter­ri­ble wife?  My hus­band is about 30lbs over­weight and has decided to start work­ing out to drop the pounds.  I already have a gym mem­ber­ship and go to Zumba, or step aer­o­bics or Power Cut with my girl­friends every week­day.  My hus­band has started com­ing to class with me.  It’s not that I don’t love him — and I’m happy he’s work­ing out — I just miss my girl time.

I feel guilty for even sug­gest­ing it, but can’t he just get on the tread­mill and watch sports like the rest of the husbands?

Anna, Idaho Falls